Swinging

So initially, I wasnt sure how to throw the idea out to my wife about inviting others in to our bedroom.  I knew I had to be tactful, so I decided to explore the idea one night after dinner (and of course enough liquid courage to loosen us both up).  I decided to ask the question. If you could sleep with one of my friends, who would it be? She, of course declined to say. The old "This is a trap, isnt it?" look came over her face. I decided to push the subject, and admit to her the thought of being with somebody else turned me on. She asked "So you wouldnt be jealous or uncomfortable watching me have sex with another man?"  I honestly didnt think it would be any problem. I have the ability to seperate the physical and emotional aspects of sex. Humans need both parts of sex. Some can handle them seperatly, some can't. I can, and was hoping she could as well. 

I told her that I wouldnt mind starting with somebody we both knew and felt comfortable with. I suggested my best friend from my hometown.  I could tell from the sly smile on her face that the idea peaked her interest. Instead of shooting the idea down, she said "And you think he would be interested?" I knew at that point things had changed forever.