The Background

OK, so sometimes living the lifestyle isnt good enough. So I decided to share the escapades of our life, anonymously, of course. Here is the background.  I am a 35 year old man. College educated, great job, good living, slightly above average looking. My wife is frickin' HOT. I out-punted my coverage. She is 31, blonde, beautiful eyes, great body (especially her ass, my favorite). We met through work back in 97'. We flirted for about 6 mos before actually going out on a date. I honestly thought she was way out of my league, but I made her laugh, and I think she liked that. I fell in love with her after the first date. We married 2 years later. Sex pre-marriage was always good. Nothing overly kinky or abnormal, just good sex. After we got married, things slowed down, as I guess the normally do. Then came our child, which REALLY slowed things down. I began to become somewhat frustrated with the frequency of our sex, and quite honestly, the quality. We both seemed to be going through the motions, and were bored. About 3 years ago, we were visiting my hometown, and were childless for the weekend. We went to dinner, and 3 bottles of wine later, the topic of sex came up. We started talking about wanting to try to keep things fresh and exciting, and decided to visit an adult bookstore that night. That was the beginning of our sexual revolution.